This article is Chapter 17 of Tell It Often, Tell It Well by Bill Bright and Mark McCloskey, Here's Life Publishers 1985. This book is now unfortunately out of print, though you can still find it second-hand. It is reproduced here by kind permission of Mark McCloskey. It remains copyright to the authors. Reproduction for private study and teaching purposes is permitted. The entire book is also online.
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Communication is a tricky business. We often are attempting to hit a moving target. Words seem to disappear into thin air, and we wonder if they have touched the listener's heart. Hendrik Kraemer asks some tough questions of the Christian communicator: "Where and how do I live? In a ghetto or in living contact with the world? Does the world listen when I speak to it, and if not, why not? Am I really proclaiming the gospel, or am I not? Why has such a wall of separation risen between the world and what I must stand for? Do I know the world in which people live, or do I not … How can I find a way to speak again with relevancy and authority, transmitting 'the words of eternal life' entrusted to me?" These are disturbing questions for the conscientious communicator. How can we begin to get a handle on the skill of Communicating Christ to an ever changing audience that is often typified by spiritual misconceptions and apathy toward the issues of the gospel?
This model was originally devised by the Bell Telephone Laboratories to help examine the accuracy (fidelity) of message transmission. See Claude E Shannon and Warren Weaver, The Mathematical Theory of Communication (Urbana, Illinois, University of Illinois Press, 1949). p. 9. Used by permission.It is obvious that such a model can be helpful to the evangelist who desires to communicate the gospel accurately and clearly. He wants to avoid any barriers that might prevent the gospel from taking root in the heart of the listener.
From David Hesselgrave's Communicating Christ Cross Culturally (Grand Rapids: Zondervan Press, 1980), p.29. used by permission.
Only the Holy Spirit can counteract the debilitating effects of this noise. Only he can graciously enable the listener to operate on a frequency that overrides his spiritual blindness, freeing him to see the light of the gospel and its power for salvation.
The sure presence of noise is the very reason that the wise Christian communicator will do his homework so he can get in touch with his listener's heart. Noise levels and patterns differ greatly from person to person, but the unchanging gospel must be clearly communicated so that all can hear and have an opportunity to believe.
The meanings are not so much in the words as they are in the people. "We do not transmit meaning, we transmit words. Words stimulate the meaning the other person has for them." As the Chinese proverb says, "90% of what we see lies behind our eyes."
I became painfully aware of this truth as I attempted to share the gospel with a Mormon. He heartily agreed with my presentation. He said he had been "saved" by the "grace of Jesus", was "born again" and was going to "heaven". While our wording was the same, however, we were using a different dictionary. He agreed with me because he interpreted my words from his own framework, which provided the same words but with different meanings. I am afraid that the noise and perils of decoding got the best of our conversation.
The combination of noise and decoding can take its toll on the fidelity of the message. Therefore, the communicator must work to ensure that the message is received and understood with the highest degree of accuracy possible.
MONOLOGUE – one-way flow of information
- no feedback
This chart was adapted from a chart used in classroom lectures by Dr. Herb Klem, professor of missions at Bethel Theological Seminary, St Paul, Minnesota. Used by permission.
This model as presented here has undergone an interesting history. In rudimentary forms, it was first suggested by Viggo Sogaard while he was a student in the Wheaton Graduate School. It later was revised by James F Engel and published in such sources as Church Growth Bulletin and elsewhere during 1973. Since that time, modifications have been introduced as others have made suggestions. Particularly helpful comments have been advanced by Richard Senzig of the communications faculty at the Wheaton Graduate School and Professors C Peter Wagner and Charles Kraft of the Fuller School of World Mission. (From What's Gone Wrong With The Harvest, Grand Rapids: Zondervan Press, 1975, p. 45. Used by permission.)
This helpful model depicts the roles of God, the communicator and the listener in the process of communicating the gospel. Everyone we talk to falls somewhere on this scale in terms of his spiritual decision-making process and receptivity to the gospel.
This scale is helpful to us as communicators of the gospel in four ways. First, it shows us that apart from the convicting ministry of the Holy Spirit, no listener can understand or respond to the gospel. Only the Spirit can neutralize the spiritual noise caused by Satan's blinding and binding efforts and free the listener to appreciate the grace and truth of the gospel.
Second, it shows that the Spirit of God and the communicator work in harmony to bring the listener to an understanding of the gospel and to the point of personal decision. As Hendrick Kraemer points out, "The communication of the gospel, which is necessarily incumbent upon the church and its members, is neither primarily nor ultimately dependent on our human ability to communicate." Kraemer maintains that we are called to a constant sharpening of our skills, "the primary author of the effective transmission of the message is the Holy Spirit," the invisible third partner in the communication process. Without His witness, ours is futile. But with His witness, ours can be a tool in His powerful hand to effect spiritual results in the life of the listener.
Third, this chart shows us that different people have different levels of spiritual understanding and interest in the gospel. While some are ready to respond today, some are not. While many are ready to take the next step toward accepting Christ, some are stalled in their decision-making process or are headed away from Christ.
Finally, this chart gives us insight into the sequence of decision steps leading to the actual event of conversion/regeneration. The listener must have an awareness of the fundamental's of the gospel before he can grasp its personal implications, and he must grasp those implications before he can recognize his problem.
Since not everyone is at the same level of spiritual preparedness, we need to ascertain as best we can at what point the listener is on the scale, then help him move as far toward trusting Christ as is appropriate. This model underscores the importance of encouraging feedback to determine the spiritual preparedness of the listener, enabling us to respond with the appropriate information.
To be sure, many are ready to receive Christ, and it would be a tragedy to deny them the opportunity. Some are struggling to gain a grasp of the personal implications of the gospel. They need to receive information and encouragement from us to take that step in the decision-making process and move closer toward receiving Christ.
I always pray two things in light of this model: first, that God would lead me to people who are ready to decide, so that I might help them enter His kingdom; second, that God would grant me the wisdom to determine where my listeners are in the decision-making process, so that I might speak to their point of need with relevance and with gospel's authority. Regardless of one's position on this scale, I can have an eternal impact on his life and fulfill my role as an ambassador for Christ.
A source-centered communicator is one whose attention is focussed on himself. Most of us find it difficult, if not impossible, just to be ourselves and act naturally when another person is present and we sense that he may be evaluating us. What happened the last time you were told, "Just act natural, I want to take your picture"? Did your attention automatically turn inward as you asked yourself, How is my hair? Is my best side showing? Did you become self-conscious to the point of discomfort?
We find ourselves dealing with the same tendencies in our first attempts to witness to others about Christ. The fear of being rejected, the lack of experience, and the discomfort that comes from doing something new all force us to turn our attention inward and ask, What does this person think of me? Does he think I'm strange, talking about Jesus like this? Lord, help me get through this conversation. I hope my mouthwash is still working.
The result of this inward focus is communication with limited effectiveness. With all our energy and attention focussed on these questions, there is little left for dealing with the concerns of message fidelity and feedback.
First, realize that although this self-centered style comes naturally to all of us, we need not remain in its grip. Purpose in your heart to do anything necessary to escape its negative influence on your communication.
Second, realize that training in the use of a good evangelistic tool, as well as experience in using it, are the means to escape the source-centered attitude. I am convinced that many Christians are so overwhelmed by fear and the inertia of inexperience that they avoid witnessing situations like the plague. Who wants to go through the discomfort of the source-centered communication experience? This is where a tool like the Four Spiritual laws can help in a couple of ways. It gives you the assurance that once you are in an evangelistic conversation, you will actually have something of spiritual significance to say. Regardless of your prior training, personally and level of communication skills, you can intelligently communicate the gospel by using such a tool. It is a great way to get started and will provide the assistance you need to communicate confidently.
This is why I recommend that everyone, no matter how spiritually mature, no matter what personality type, participate in a training programme that equips him to break through the fear and experience barriers and actually get involved in doing evangelism. Such training can help you know how to introduce the gospel, communicate it and close an evangelistic conversation. Even more important, training can help you shorten the amount of time you have to struggle with the deficiencies of the self-centered attitude, for the fear and inadequacies of this phase are overcome only as experience is accumulated.
I have seen these principles work in my own life. As I first learned that sharing the gospel was for everyone, I decided to try out with the help of a friend. At first I just watched him and prayed, but the time soon came for me to go solo. I was scared to death and felt so self conscious that I am sure I did nothing more than read through the Four Spiritual Laws booklet as fast as I could. If any of the pages had been stuck together, I would not have noticed. After I finished and the trainer evaluated my time, my first question was, "Is it always this hard and unpleasant? I thought sharing the gospel was a great joy". He replied that as I gained more experience and training, I would feel more natural. He was right.
On the other hand, it would be a mistake to presume upon the grace of God to make up for our lethargy and lack of commitment to improve our communication skills. God will use you, but He desires to use you as a sharpened tool in His hands. There is no place for mediocrity here. If there is one area in which to pursue excellence, it is in the communication of the gospel.
Thus, if you are in the source-centered stage, possibly just learning how to overcome your fears and get out there to do evangelism, congratulations. But there is much more ground to cover in the name of being the best ambassador possible for Jesus Christ.
The message-oriented communicator asks himself, "Am I doing justice to the content and intent of the message?" "How am I doing in terms of fidelity?" But as Figure 7 shows, this phase stills falls short of true other-centered communication. The communicator's energies are focussed on the message, not on the listener.
What is the best way to free yourself to invest your emotional energies in the listener? The answer is to master the message to such a degree that it becomes second nature to you. Only then can your communication energies be focussed on the listener. This is why concentrating on a particular format for sharing the gospel is so important, for the sooner I master the message, the sooner I can move into the most efficient realm of communication, the other-centered style.
At this point I want discuss two divergent approaches to evangelistic training, both of which can be barriers to progressing toward other-centered communication.
But this is a tragic attitude because communication, as we have mentioned, is not just delivering a message. It is also ensuring that the message is understood. The goal of evangelism is to give the listener an opportunity to make an informed decision for Christ. But such a decision may be hampered by noise (cultural, theological or personal), which makes an informed decision sometimes difficult. The Christian who has stagnated in the message-centered style is ill prepared to deal with these concerns.
A positive side to this thinking is that the communicator really wants to be other-centered. He is usually conscious of the need for genuine communication.
But the shortcomings are serious. First, while some very gifted people may indeed be "natural" other-centered communicators, most of us must admit that we are not so inclined. As a result, we must deal with the fears and inadequacies inherent in the self-centered styles. Telling someone to "just be natural" does not help him overcome these barriers.
Second, this person usually views tools and training as stifling and inflexible factors. After all, how can I be trained in how to be myself? I do not need a tool for "sharing from my heart" what Jesus has done for me. With tools and training out of the picture, the Christian is then left to himself to navigate the tricky waters of other-centered communication. The result is that often no true evangelism takes place, or the evangelistic encounter is not typified by a clear presentation of the gospel.
© copyright Mark McCloskey & Bill Bright. Taken from Tell it Often, Tell it Well, Here's Life Publishers 1985. Used by permission.Top of page
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